Expectations

Since ages ,we some or the other day try to soothe our emotions ,when we are hurt saying, we should not have had these expectations,It would have been easy otherwise ,But is it really so simple ,no not at all ,otherwise pearls from our eyes would not slide so easily.

I thought about it & then realised, this is more bookish than practical ,had the world run on no expectations theory the lovely human bond would not have existed ,Thewomen would have never given birth to child,she does it with lots of expectations of enjoying & reliving her own childhood,

There are so called intellectuals who say one should have controlled expectation ,Can some one suggest me a barometre to measure this.

I belive there is nothing wrong in having expectations,all relationships have an element of expectation. just do not over run it,

So next time if you have some expectation don't hold yourself guilty,speak your heart,It will strengthen your bond in any relationship ,be it personal or professional.